In search of Happiness
"बचपन में हम सब कितने भी उत्पाती क्यों ना रहे हों पर
नाई की कान काटने वाली एक धमकी हमें बिल्कुल सीधा बना देती थी, चाहे 15 मिनट के लिए ही सही..!!"
sometime we behind material things ,if i gain i will happiest.I don't have this ,that why my life is not perfect .it sound bad for few moment but why me ??
why, always me is most unfortunate one ,why this happen to me only,why i am target of all bad ,but i thought it just instruction given to mind to think that way ?? it all about how we outlook at our life, what things that are most important to us,when i contact with those people for some moment i thought ,i don't have anythings in life. may be ,God don't want to see me happy.may be this may be that etc etc ...
why our happiness depend on another person ?why some one can tiger my emotions ...why does having not these materialistic things in my life make me unfortunate ? nah, thinking in this way ,definitely ,i am less.
In this world full of opportunity and we restrict ourselves ,and don't allow ourselves to explore beyond imagination .
we should do some things that make us happy ,no matter people thinks about this .because it makes me happy ,it may be foolish childish and unconsidered from his or him point of view but for me it is source of happiness.
why we feel good when we meet same kind of people who are same as us ,saying meeting mind. when some one thinks exactly as you .we suddenly don't care about environment around ,no fear ,no over thinking nothing just peaceful, like sitting in the environment make you more relax than a crowded place.
sometime i hesitated to share thought because either it is there beyond understanding.I read several book on human physiology, and from my observation,i find people naturally tend to be with people who make them comfortable, like no awkwardness and it comes naturally.
it is very natural to read a human when he /she is very comfortable or not.when he pretend to be something he /she is actually .
for me ,definition of happiness means when you are comfortable what you have,what you are from within and outside .
it is human tendency ,it easily get into things which are his/her beyond understanding means some thing that mind keep wondering .like if you don't have you have desire to achieve it like better life, when you don't see or have something you want . and after getting what is value of this ,nothing .zero it is momental happiness which are for few times saying in Hindi "chatnik". after getting human become more arrogant and more unhappy one .it very common observation founded in human being.very few people that can maintain a healthy mindset .after some time when he/she star losing things then again it point of realisation and regrets.
so at the ends of this, my most article are just personal thought,so this one also, and it become very long ,so i want to close it.
I want to close it on positive notes, and so i want to say in life ,if you have chance , live your life first ,because until you are not happy with your life ,you will not happy with anythings. make balance for every things ,because every things is important ,break rule, put a loud music ,wear want you want , do whatever you but keeping it should not harmful to another person. CZ life is very short for being normal .be crazy ,be wired ,be you.
