responsibility

मुझे अच्छी लगती है यें जिम्मेदारिया.

माना मै कभी कभी परेशान हो जाती हुँ

मना कभी कभी घबरा भी जाती हूँ

पर सच कहूं मुझे अच्छी लगती है यें जिम्मेदारियां

लेकिन क्यूं

जब कोई कुछ गलत करे तो उसे सुधरने का हक़्क़ मिलता है

लगता है कुछ हूँ मै अपने परिवार के लिए

वो समजते हैँ मुझे मुझे एक जरुरी इंसां

होर वो लाड प्यार, वो भी तो मिलता है

होर मिलता है, देर सारी इज़्ज़त.

क्या वो अनमोल नहीं

तो फिर क्यूं ना कहूंगा

की है अच्छी लगती है जिम्मेदारियां.

How to find Happiness in life

In search of Happiness

"बचपन में हम सब कितने भी उत्पाती क्यों ना रहे हों पर

नाई की कान काटने वाली एक धमकी हमें बिल्कुल सीधा बना देती थी, चाहे 15 मिनट के लिए ही सही..!!"

sometime we behind material things ,if i gain i will happiest.I don't have this ,that why my life is not perfect .it sound bad for few moment but why me ??

why, always me is most unfortunate one ,why this happen to me only,why i am target of all bad ,but i thought it just instruction given to mind to think that way ?? it all about how we outlook at our life, what things  that are most important to us,when i contact with those people for some moment i thought ,i don't have anythings in life. may be ,God don't want to see me happy.may be this may be that etc etc ...

why our happiness depend on another person ?why some one can tiger my emotions ...why does having not these materialistic things in my life make me unfortunate ? nah, thinking in this way ,definitely ,i am less.

In this world full of opportunity and we restrict ourselves ,and don't allow ourselves to explore beyond imagination .

we should do some things that make us happy ,no  matter people thinks about this .because it makes  me happy ,it may be foolish childish and unconsidered from his or him point of view but for me it is source of happiness. 

why we feel good when we meet same kind of people who are same as us ,saying meeting mind. when some one thinks exactly as you .we suddenly don't care about environment  around ,no fear ,no over thinking nothing just peaceful, like sitting in the environment make you more relax than a crowded place.

sometime i hesitated to share thought because either it is there beyond understanding.I read several book on human physiology, and from my observation,i find people naturally tend to be with people who make them comfortable, like no awkwardness and it comes naturally.

it is very  natural to read a human when he /she is very comfortable or not.when he pretend to be something he /she is actually .

for me ,definition of happiness means when you are comfortable what you have,what you are from within and outside .

it is human tendency ,it easily get into things which are his/her beyond understanding means some thing that mind keep wondering .like if you don't have you have desire to achieve it like better life, when you don't see or have something you want . and after getting what is value of this ,nothing .zero it is momental happiness which are for few times saying in Hindi "chatnik". after getting human become more arrogant and more unhappy one .it very common observation founded in human being.very few people that can maintain a healthy mindset .after some time when he/she star losing things then again it point of realisation and regrets.

so at the ends of this, my most article are just personal thought,so this one also, and it become very long ,so i want to close it.

I want to close it on positive notes, and so i want to say in life ,if you have chance , live your life first ,because until you are not happy with your life ,you will not happy with anythings.  make balance for every things ,because every things is important ,break rule, put a loud music ,wear want you want , do whatever you but keeping it should not harmful to another person. CZ life is very short for being normal .be crazy ,be wired ,be you.

  

Experiences of life

EXPERIENCES AND LEARNING 

How can you define life ,what is life actually, life is collection of experiences, memories whether good or bad . As stated above in quote, yes ,when we comes in this world ,it be like empty BOTTLE .
as we grow older ,they is lot of thing change rapidly, whether you acceptept  or not ........it is change with time to match with it you have to constantly walks  with it ,without thinking bcuz if you waste your time  to think about it u won't able to live it fully .....
sometime, I Thought, I really feel like it is common but different ,every person deal with same thing in life at any moment of like like one way  or another. Like same wishes ,same excepectation from life , how we make choice define ours life and its future or our priorities define it ,or we can say what we lacks, we try to gain it .
when i thought of destiny ,i thought there should be no word exit for in world or may be ,like situation and action is done by human than why we calls it destiny,Luck. but sometime karma is also not get paid by ,that why destiny comes into picture .  

In short we live every day a d learn new things,we observe ,learn and improve .how life work .

The ultimate power is our mind,what our mind give instructions ,we follow .you can say ,two things we have one is thinking capacity,other is emotional intelligence .both play very good part of life.whaf we think ,we act on that ,that can develop with time .we can enhance that with time by doing various activities like reading ,or many things.

Other one is emotional intelligence,that is also major part of our life, without this you can't survive with without I.Q you can survive,but without E.Q,it is very tough. but good thing,we all had that in sufficient amount.a study shown people with good social skill, good people managing skill are prone to success. Because you can update your I.Q power by practice, but you can't improve your E.Q power .that is God gifted things   

Like what other feel,what their beliefs ,what they think about whether you like you or not .That why we try to find connection , connection in the sense ,with we feel comfortable .

Having I.Q is good ,you are intelligence,then your priorities, should be like , finding same mindset people who have same knowledge,with whom you can relate,means having conversations.

Both are valid on their aspect,their place of need .

Every person has different story to tell,it really pleasure to find their life joinery ,how they reach the place ,they are today,what difficulty they face ,how they overcome .That is experiences everybody had different story , mindset, quality, beliefs.neither one is superior than others.the way they are ,is their experience .it is really grateful when  you meet different kind of personality, but honestly in real life situation ,it is different story to tell. I thought, it  is very expectation from people who is only engage  into personal profit only.I am not denying that some Good does exist,In fact many.   

Thanks with ending quote who is intention is only in life Either you win or learn something .So Don't restrict yourself by any things in life .life is  given to  live, not wasting on stupid stuff that don't matter at all .LIVE IT FULLY WITHOUT ANY REGRET.

  

THE MAGIC OF PERCEPTION

MAGIC OF PERCEPTION

Perception is the biggest and most used reality of life.knowingly and unknowingly, we are quite doing assumptions of things, people and everything. Every time world introduces a new concept with full of fact and logic, Some time it is quite interesting to be an assumption about many things.If it is this, then it means it, if it seems like this, surely it will and so on.

People  and thing are divided into perception and people get confused with perception.

Perception, can you define it, what is the meaning of perception ......

It is a kind of mirage. You know what is a mirage in real life, it is belief based on experience.

mirage is like seem like something but actually is a different thing.

What is mind,mind is storage of thought, thought comes from information received by the difference sources. It is like movie, who process into interdependent and interrelated information to obtain meaningful information .or say a set of sequence to create a story.

If any sequences get interchanged with each other, it is like confusion.

We daily talk about so much thing about politics, leader and follower, food, places, fashion sense, and personal experiences, our belief, custom so on. There are many things to the discussion, everyone has new information about that, each person has a different opinion about that topic. Sometimes we agree with that sometimes not. But when I think about it, sometimes it is totally inapplicable to day to day life, which means some concept is impractical, whether it's technically wrong or right that is the second thing about that.

Perception is also dependent upon many things like logic, feelings, stereotype facts and last uncompleted information and last not least human behavioral facts. Their many things dependent upon our perception, like our behavior, our culture value, in fact, the way we think about something is also dependent on it. It is a kind of mixture of our intelligence as well as imagination power. and intelligence is change with new information.and so your your perceptive about those specific things

The reason behind writing this blog is only, I want to convey the message to people that we make choices in life whether this is suitable according to me, my lifestyle, my surroundings and many things based upon according to our perception or say
society perception. Sometime Perception match with reality, Sometimes not. It only tells you about ifs this and if that. 

"So, in life make choices what you want, not based on the perception of anything. Do what you are interested in, not according to the mirage of Perception."

    Perception is changed every minute of life, that life called quite unpredictable. but play a very important part of life. 
and as a human being , always try to make your own perception to your self is so strong, so obstacle in life seems little.and just be your self, people opinions and perception will change and if they underestimate you, prove them wrong . if you are capable enough , if not work for that. there is a slock in Hindi of "Tulsidas" about it. 
करत करत अभ्यास के जड़मति होत सुजान।
रसरी आवत जात ते सिल पर परत निसान।।

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